Be strong. Fight.

           It's nice to see people smile in spite of many hardships that they encounter along their life. It's nice how they fight, fiercely, and how they backed up to these problems. Well, it is necessary. Some people, actually, many people, give up easily when they were encountering problems. They thought that God punished them and he doesn't deserved to be encountering these hardships in their life. They're just complaining and worse, they questioning and blaming God why He was doing it to them. They don't see the essences of problems, hardships and hindrances in life. Well, for me, it's hard to accept in yourself, that in fact, all these hardships that you're encountering is given to learn you lessons. It's hard to accept that your loved ones died to give you lessons that you didn't have in life. Maybe, we thought, that it must not be like that. But for me, if there's nothing going wrong or worst in our lives, we will never make difference. We will just go with it. Just go with the flow of your life even if you know that you must deserve a meaningful life more than this. You will just wait there and see if something will happen in your life. It's part of God's plan to make us better person. To make us these person that He wants us to be. We need to strive harder in life. You know that you deserved something or someone better. You know that you can be a better person. Yo know that you can be a blessing to others. You know that you can do something good in your life. Something good that could affect your living as well as the lives of other people around you. Just don't give up. Don't let this problems back you down. You're bigger than your problems. Don't let it control you, you control it. 

              There are so many things in life that you'll focused more than these bullsh*t problems. Just let it go. Be a better person, fight for what you think is right, bring all the happiness that you can bring in your life and be strong. It's life. We know that life is a journey, not a destination. What matters is what happens along the way. What differences you make to yourself and to other people. What good you bring to them. There are people there, having more difficulty in their lives as you have, then you can appreciate more what you have. Be optimistic. Look at the brighter perspective. Everything has a way, if you want to. If everything falls apart, talk to God. He knows everything. From your smallest mole up to your deepest secrets. He will help you. He will guide you. He will let you live the best way you can.  

                       Here's a song from the band, The Fray. Just try to learn from it and reflect on it.